Does penis size matter and what does the Bible say? It has been noticed that many marriages break because of the ineffectiveness of men in bed as many women claim. The big question is, “does penis size matter?” Most ladies think that having a big and long size can easily bring them to sexual climax (Orgasm). Many have longed for such as they pity themselves because of their husband’s ‘small size.’

Does penis size matter, what does the Bible say
Does penis size matter, what does the Bible say?

What the Bible teaches about penis size.

The Bible is silent about this matter, but it does clearly state how marriage should be handled and the role of each spouse on matters to do with sex.

“The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command.” 

1 Corinthians 7:3-6, NIV.

Anyone who uses his spouse merely to satisfy himself [his selfish desires], insults his own dignity and that of his partner. He is using sex for a selfish purpose.

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What research say about penis size, does it matter?

“The average length of a flaccid penis is 3.61 inches (9.17 cm), while the average length of an erect penis is 5.16 inches (13.11 cm), according to a survey conducted in the British Journal of Urology International (BJUI).” According to Dr. Cynthia Cobb, “the average depth of a vagina is about 3.77 inches (9.58 cm), which is 9.6 centimeters (cm). Other sources suggest that the average range of size may be about 3 inches (7.62 cm) to 7 inches (17.78 cm) (approximately 7.6–17.7 cm).”

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The relationship between virginal size and penis length.

In the few years I have been in the field of science as a chemist, I have come to ascertain that the vagina’s length while unstimulated ranges from 2.75 inches (6.99 cm) to about 3.25 inches (8.26 cm). Sounds crazy, I get it. When a woman is aroused, it increased from 4.25 inches (10.79 cm) to 4.75 inches (12.06 cm). I believe you are now relieved. And the average erected penis is about 33 to 35 percent longer than the average vagina. While both penis and vagina sizes can vary, these two amazing organs usually accommodate each other perfectly. This is a mystery, it’s the perfect work of God.

From the above scientific research, we now know that every man is able to satisfy his wife, and therefore size does not determine the quality of sex or its satisfaction. I believe being good in bed isn’t about penis size, but how best one handles the whole process.

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The Bible on sexual fulfillment.

God commands that the marriage bed should be kept pure (Hebrews 13:4). We are also advised as youths to abstain. The reason why many complain about size is that they never abstained, as they experimented with a variety of penis sizes. While fornicating, they have met men with big and long stuff, and the time they are settling for marriage they end up with a man with a medium size. This ends up creating chaos as the lady will probably never be satisfied. She ends up cheating with her exes to fulfill her sexual gratification. These ladies always tend to bring their sexual experience in the marital bed, which can never work with their new partner.

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The advantages of abstaining.

Waiting until marriage doesn’t benefit God, it’s for our own good. And because of our obedience, God blesses the union, and the children born out of such a union are holy.

Couples who marry while virgins have been known to enjoy their marriage and have the highest sexual satisfaction. This is because they have grown together in their marriage experimenting with what works best for them. The man learns what is enjoyable for his wife, seeking to please her as she also does the same. It’s a learning process that brings wonderful payoffs for their sexual experience and their marriage.

Virginity isn’t a guarantee of healthy sexuality or marriage, it takes the hand of God. For those of us who have messed up, we need to repent and seek Him to heal and sanctify us, and God by His grace will renew our marriages.

What to refrain from.

Most men always opt for pornography to gain sexual skills. What they should know is that porn is a sin and what it presents is purely perverted. It’s fantasy and can’t be applied in marriage. Porn only incites sexual violence and lust, leading to adultery. It involves strangers in the marital bed, hence defiling it. “Jesus warned that lust associated with looking at a woman is equivalent to adultery before God.” (Matthew 5:28)


I truly believe that every man is capable of satisfying his wife sexually regardless of their penis size. We must view the marriage bed as part of a whole. There are other things that must be dealt with that sex can never fix, and being good in bed isn’t about penis size, but how best you handle the whole process.

I hope this article was useful to you. Does penis size matter? Let me know what you think in the comments section below. Thank you for your time and effort in reading this article to the end. God bless you more and more.

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