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Should couples use role-play in the bedroom?
Trying to act out a sex scene as a different person, or play any role in the marriage bed that does not honor God and His principles is sin. For example, when your husband demands that you act as if he is raping you while having intercourse
Should you give your tithe to the church or help the needy?
The church leadership has the responsibility of distributing these resources to the poor, taking off the burden from your shoulders. So, let the church leadership decide what to do with it as they are led by the spirit of God, just as the early church did under the apostles.
Metaverse and porn | Pros and cons of the metaverse
The metaverse has a great impact in amplifying addictions, especially porn addiction. Previously we saw how other technologies such as augmented reality devices aided in the use of porn, increasing the frequency of masturbation and addition to such products.
What is the relationship between porn and bestiality?
Most people’s desire for bestiality began as a result of curiosity while observing animals’ mating behavior or being accidentally mounted by their playful dogs while they were kids.
Should Church Instruments Be Used In Ceremonies?
Every devoted article including church instruments, especially music instruments should never be used outside of the premises of the church. These articles are dedicated for ministration in the church to bring glory and praise to God.
Delivered From Bestiality And Porn.
I can’t believe I lost my virginity on an animal, this is insane. I had never had any sexual experience before, and therefore I can not say I enjoyed the act.
What are prophetic tools and their use?
Prophetic tools were and are still used today as vessels by which God manifests His wonder-working power.
Why most divorce happen after 8 years of marriage?
From personal experience, my parents divorced after 8 years of marriage. The greatest cause of their divorce was an unbearable intrusion from family members. Marriage is between two people and a third party
Should Christians Subscribe To Onlyfans?
There is great objectification of women in the mainstream sex industry like never before. Lustful men commercialized and evaluated women as objects for their gratification.
The Relationship Between Modeling And Porn | How Modeling Promotes Pornography
Unsuspecting models are easily lured into adult modeling and with time, into the porn industry. The process is very gradual and involves a great deal of manipulation.
What does it mean to wear a gold wedding ring while having sex in a dream?
In real life we expect a married woman to wear a ring and to have sexual relations with her husband. Which is similar to what you saw in the dream.
How Instagram and TikTok are promoting nudity and pornography.
These platforms are a back-door to all forms of nudity and even porn despite the Instagrams nudity policy which no one follows. Pornography which is linked to sex trafficking is highly thriving on this platform.
Should Christian men use penis enlargement pills?
Most of these penis enlargement pills have the potential of increasing your penis size by 3 cm per pill. Taking 12 pills increases it by 36 cm + what you already have. What do you do with that extra mass and length, and which normal woman will want or even desire that?
Does vagina color matter | Is a pink pussy better than a dark pussy?
Most vaginas are within the dark range, from somehow dark to very dark, and they are all stunning and attractive. Porn only pollutes this reality. There is no perfect color or shape,
Should a man lust after his wife?
A man should chase after his wife [Songs of Solomon 1:4] as well as the wife should do the same. Let them be consumed with each other’s love, passion, and sexual intimacy. Every part of her body is holy and beautiful, and it should make you want her more and more each day.
Should you divorce a man who defiles your daughter?
Think of the torture your daughter has endured and the shame she will bear for the rest of her life. Will you continue staying with an abusive husband in the name of ‘pleasing God’ so that grace may abound? Of course, no. Wake up from your slumber.
Should you continue living with your spouse if they have renounced their faith?
A person who has renounced their faith is equated to an unbeliever and therefore, should be treated as one. God Has called all believers to live in peace and anyone who dares to separate us from Christ should be avoided.
How to revive dying love in marriage
Is your marriage on the verge of collapsing? Things are not working out as they used to. It seems your…
How movies corrupt our concept of love
Most movies are tailored to be addictive. It’s just a business, and most often the directors of such movies don’t have the interest of genuine love in marriage at heart. This makes scenes to be very attractive and addictive just like any other drug and pornography.
7 best sex positions for a Christian couple
Sexual activity in the marriage bed is approved by God and hence couples should feel free to give their thoughts about what works best for them. However, sex is a matter of giving and not just taking or receiving. You should desire most to meet your spouse’s sexual needs, and by doing so, you will find your needs being met as well.
Should Christians send nudes? | Is sending nudes a sin?
Asking your woman to send you her nudes is disrespecting her and it lowers her worth. Trust me, women don’t like the idea of sending their nudes, they hate it.
The 4 sins that destroy many Christians
What are the major sins that destroy many Christians? Every person regardless of their faith is struggling with something in their lives. Whether be it lust, pornography, drugs, sex, greed, pride, gossip, and the list goes on. However, the intensity of these strangles differs from one person to another.
Why Solomon loved strange women
What was the reason why Solomon loved strange women? It’s a pity and a great controversy that Solomon created the conditions for his downfall with all his wisdom. The major reason being his love for strange women. He had an insatiable lust for women. For this reason, he took for himself, 700 wives and 300 concubines.
Was it God’s fault that Cain killed Abel?
Was it God’s fault that Cain killed Abel? Or allow me to put it in these few ways. Was God behind the murder of Abel? Was God’s favoritism the reason why Cain killed Abel? And lastly, did God cause Cain to kill Abel? I am sure you have at one point asked yourself any of these critical questions.
The reason why Egypt is no longer a superpower today
Why is Egypt no longer a superpower as in ancient times? What happened to Egypt and her wealth and princes? Egypt used to be the glory and refuge of many nations including Israel. O might Egypt, what happened to you and your splendor?
Does God warn you not to marry someone in a dream?
Does God warn you not to marry someone? The answer is yes. Indeed, God does warn us not to be involved with some people in a relationship. The reason is that God knows the motives of every person’s heart and He also knows what is best for us. This doesn’t mean that God chooses a life partner for anyone. Don’t confuse the two. God can never choose a spouse or even reveal to you your future spouse in a dream.
Effects of the sin of one man | Consequences of sin
Can the sin of one man affect everyone or provoke judgment in a generation? Most of the present pain and troubles are as a result of the sin of one man, the sins of our forefathers. A good example being the fall of mankind attributed to Adam. Their iniquities have affected our livelihoods, even though we did not participate in the act of sin.
The beauty of dwelling in the presence of God
The presence of God is filled with the fragrance of His glory, saturating the atmosphere and the lives and spirits of those who dwell therein. The presence of God is the dwelling place for true worshippers, those who worship God in truth and spirit. Men with a heart after God, seeking not their vain obsessions nor desires, but that of The LORD their God.
Effects of the Political alliance between Uhuru and Raila | BBI will fail
I saw how similar the political alliance/ coalition between Raila and Uhuru was to that of Ahab and Jehoshaphat. [2 Chronicles 18;1-34, 19:1-3]. The alliance was detestable before God because Ahab didn’t worship the living God. Jehoshaphat had indulged himself in a war that was not his. What made it worse is that he had allowed his son to take a wife for himself from the house of Ahab and Jezebel the abomination of idolatry in Israel.
The path of light | Ways To Walk the Path of Light
The path of light is the place of healing, peace, and restoration. The path of light or simply light represents hope and healing. Psychology is a good idea as it to some extent helps to restore one to a stable state. People who are in pain, have messed-up, and maybe even engage in self-destructive behaviors don’t need to be scorned or even rebuked. These people are already rebuked, their guilt consciousness already condemns them
God’s providence in overcoming sin
The teaching of providence asserts that our God is in absolute control and sovereign over all things in the universe. If He is in control, then it means He is able to guide our steps if only we allow Him. The reason being that God can’t deprive us of Free Will. He sets the standard and therefore can’t break it, since He is one with His word.
Loving even when it hurts
What does it mean to love even when it hurts? Take a scenario where your spouse cheats on you, but you still love them, and deep within your heart you want them to stay but the prevailing circumstance can’t allow. It’s true to say that those we love most really hurt us the most. Even though our hearts are broken and we have become paranoid, it’s amazing to realize that there remains a special place to still love them again.
Love is not an illusion, it’s real
I would like to clear a preconceived knowledge in your mind, that love is an illusion, a magical feeling, or anything of such kind. True love is real and beautiful; however, love is not an illusion.
What are conditional prophecies actually?
Most of the Biblical prophecies are condition-based, meaning the people have a key role to play and their response greatly determines the outcome of the prophecy. Therefore, the outcome of such prophecies is a function of our response to God’s divine word.
What is the principle of vulnerability and attachment?
People who are strongly attached (emotionally attached) tend to be vulnerable as they are exposed to each other. It is very easy for an individual to find himself in a compromised state. That’s why it is important to guard your heart. We should learn to know when and how to set boundaries in any relationship.
Does God tell you who to marry in a dream?
“God revealed to me that I should marry you.” Just because they had a dream, doesn’t mean it was from the LORD. most often what people claim to be God’s revelation of their future spouse is always a lie, it is drawn from their minds and not a dream from God. therefore, it is without dispute that God doesn’t reveal to you your spouse. He only leads you to find the right person if only you seek His counsel.
Is it right to marry a lady with a child?
Marrying a lady with a child is a risk the majority won’t desire to take. However, love demands something greater than just a sacrifice, and that is a choice. True love must be tested.
Is judging pastors a sin?
We have all at one moment in life judged pastors based on their actions, which according to us is a misrepresentation of the kingdom of God. Is judging pastors a sin then? To begin with, all the sons of men are subject to fall as they all have weaknesses and not one of us is righteous. So, it is also true for pastors, as they are humans and not angels (even angels are subject to falling) and while under pressure can find themselves succumbing to their carnal nature and end up sinning.
Submission in marriage meaning and myths about submission
Submission in marriage should be practiced by both parties in the institution of marriage. The bible is clear, that is both man and woman should submit to each other out of reverence to God (Ephesians 5:21). However, for the sake of order, the man is given the benefit to lead the family as the head. This doesn’t disqualify the woman from playing a role of leadership.
Dreaming of snakes Christian meaning | Snake dreams interpretation
From the snake’s behavior, we know that it can also symbolize our emotions of anger and rage. That’s how we always behave when blinded by anger, as it poisons our soul. This makes us bitter and unforgiving.
God’s original purpose for a woman
In every woman, there is that inner desire to rule, to make their independent choices without influence from the male. Women who have realized their potential and who they are and their purpose in life have raised beyond the limitations that the male and society at large have placed for them.
Sex dreams interpretation Christian meaning
Sex dreams are very common. The symbolic meaning may differ greatly based on the context of that dream. It is good to consider the type of sex, and how it is being done, and with who you are involved. Using the Bible, the inspired word of God, we can define the meaning of the sexual symbolisms.
5 Key things to consider before marriage
Before you ever come to the point of deciding whether to marry him/ her it’s important to talk about the marriage itself and the key things and responsibilities involved in the institute of marriage. Remember marriage is a sacred union and you don’t want to risk your entire life in a bad marriage, that’s why it’s vital to think about this matter. What are the things to consider before marriage?
10 Single mother pros and cons | Unique single mothers
women are a special part of the creation and the universe at large. They are created with an inherent potential that only resides in them alone. Unlike their male counterparts, they have this unique ability to do things and even solve critical problems. They are outstanding problem solvers. Even though they are blamed for creating most of the problem, it is not true. Humans in their fallen nature are responsible for such
Can women be pastors? | Are Women Ordained As Bishops?
Can women be pastors, can they even serve in any other capacity in the church, what does the Bible have to say about women pastors, can women serve as church elders, are women ordained as bishops? These are just but a few queries to mention. They are among the most asked questions in the church of Christ. Today I am going to break it down for you by providing you with a balanced biblical approach to this matter.
#2 Things God hates the most.
From the begging man has always followed his carnal nature, by rebelling against The Eternal one. Therefore, man has ended up being a corrupted being. All the ways of man and the inclination of his heart is evil from childhood.[Genesis 8:21]. Generally, God distastes sin, but there are two things that He hates the most.
8 Effects of pornography and how porn relates to sex trafficking and child porn
Small girls are force to shoot virgin defloration pornographic films and adult women bizarre porn scene with machines and group of ruthless men (gang porn). Pornography is a true evil.
Is kissing while dating wrong? | Is kissing a sin?
As Christians, kissing may not be an issue, but for the sake of our own conscience and that of others [Especially new converts] we should reconsider. If kissing disturbs your conscience, why then do it in the first place. Christ has called us to serve Him with a clear conscience[II Timothy I:3] and anything that defiles the purity of our conscience and body should be refrained from.
The power of unity
It’s in the dwelling of brethren in unity, where The LORD commands His blessings, which is likened to the anointing of oil.
Does penis size matter? (A Christian perspective)
“does penis size matter?” Most ladies think that having a big and long size can easily bring them to sexual climax [Orgasm]. Many have longed for such as they pity themselves because of their husband’s ‘small size.’
“Stolen waters are sweet”
“come, let us take our fill of love till morning; let us delight ourselves with love. For my husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey.” And as a fool he follows her, but little does he know that it will cost him his life. This is how sin ensnares us by its craftiness. This young man doesn’t know that she has a track record of the many might men she has laid low and slain, and that her house is the way to Sheol, going down to the chambers of death.
Polygamy is not a remedy for adultery, 1 is enough
polygamy is not evil, but it’s not God’s ideal for marriage. looking at the demerits, it’s wise for one to reconsider their decision. As from the beginning, God intended marriage to be a solemn union between man and a woman, and this is the gold standard.
Sacredness of the marriage bed
The marriage bed is like a flower where love blossoms. It is in the coming together intimately [sexually], that love develops. When both partners give themselves in complete surrender to the other, a uniting of unparalleled depth takes place. The sexual expression, the cleaving is an excellent producer of oneness. [Genesis 2:24].
Can a man marry an older woman? | Marrying an older woman
You can marry an older woman and it can even turn out to be the best relationship you will ever have. Marrying an older woman is not the problem here.
On what ground should one divorce?| Considering divorce
Divorce in the Scripture is permitted only because of man’s sin. From these two cases we have looked into, it is clear that there is no ground on which divorce is truly justified. It has never been God’s intention from the beginning and only death can separate them.
Divorce is not the solution
Before considering divorce, one should put into account the lives of children involved. Are you willing to raise them without a father? You deny them the privilege to ever experience a father’s love or even a mother’s love.
How to know the will of God
We naturally don’t want God’s will. Man’s will is deeply rooted in his selfish desires, greed, and his lustful nature, which are self-destructive. It’s only the will of God that is good, acceptable, and perfect.
The state of our hearts | Israel’s rebellion
God in His sovereignty chose Israel (which in our current dispensation is the church), to become a light and salt to the nations (II Corinthians 3:2-3, NIV). But Israel as a people missed the mark terribly and forgot the purpose of their election (II Peter 1:10-11). Let’s examine the state of our hearts.
The secret to claim your blessings.
Our blessings are in the heavenly places. However, in this same location, there are demonic entities that operate to oppose the will of God. Therefore, we have to fight through to take hold of that which Christ has promised us. We have to take possession of our territory in which the enemy is currently operating in.
God is able to keep us from falling.
A true believer of Jesus Christ does not fall into sin. We most often walk into sin/ meddle with sin. We ignore the still small voice (which often sounds like our voice), the promptings of the Holy Spirit. It all begins with a step, we receive warning through the promptings of the Holy Spirit, but we ignore and eventually we find ourselves entangled with sin.
What is the right time to be in a relationship?
What is the right time to be in a relationship? This is a question that troubles the major, it’s like…
God’s design for marriage
The greatest cause of our society’s troubles is rooted in marriage. Family is the basic unit of any society. It is out of it that we have the society and from the society a nation. If we look deep into the matter, we realize it’s not just marriage that is the problem but the individuals involved in this institution. There is a need for us to understand God’s design for marriage.
To love is to live | Characteristics of love
True love is rare to find and it’s precious. It is not just a normal thing for one to commit to love you when they know your flaws. True Love is everlasting, never fails, covers a multitude of sins, it’s kind, not proud, always persevere, does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
Righteousness by grace
Our loving God is holy and we can not attain this standard of righteousness in our carnal state by good deeds. Righteousness is by grace for it is God who Has justified us through the blood of His son Jesus. So that we might attain His standard of righteousness. His standard is too high that we can not attain.
The assurance of our salvation | Our predestination
God predestined us to be conformed into the image/likeness of His Son Jesus Christ. He also planned for our salvation, sanctification, and justification in advance, for it is written in Revelation 13:8b “……of the Lamb who was slain before the foundation of the world.” In God’s mind, Christ had already redeemed us and risen from the grave. “For it is God who commands the ends from the beginning.” (Isaiah 46:10). God had seen the end product already, and when He looks at us, He sees us as glorified (Romans 8:30).
The power of the cross of Jesus
The main focus is not on the cross but on the person of Christ and the grace that flows from that cross. It is He who was hanged on that cross that brought redemption, healing and has now reconciled us with the Father.
Beauty in brokenness | Why God breaks us
People who have been broken are the strongest and most mature. Women who once messed up and later come to their senses and repented, are the most amazing kind of persons you will ever meet. There is beauty in them being broken and out of their brokenness God brings forth glory.
The reason why god breaks us
God gives us sufficient grace to go through this season, for His power is made perfect in our weakness. Therefore, we should always count if pure joy when God allows us to be broken, for it is for our own benefit.
Understanding God’s grace.
A clear picture of God’s grace is depicted in the book of Hosea, where God asks him to marry a…
What not to do after a breakup or divorce
Nothing breaks ones’ heart like to love people who do not respond to us with the same love and affection. It like falling in love with an object that will never respond to you.
Protecting your integrity in a relationship
The question of integrity is key in a relationship. Being in a relationship and maintaining purity is what seems to be a challenge in our society. In a secular world where the driving force into a relationship is lust and the desire to have great sex, it is a challenge for youths and even couples to be faithful and stay pure.
Love must be tested
As faith is tested, so is love. Anything that is good and valuable in life, is worth being put to a test. Have you ever wondered why most relationships are short-lived (do not last)? This is because such relationships have not been tested/ tried to be found true and pure. A true relationship must be tested to be proved as genuine, one that can withstand pressure and all kind of challenges.
What breaks a man’s heart?
A good relationship should be about pursuing each other, and not one individual pursuing the other who pretends to have no interest. The two individuals should therefore pursue each other with the goal of “making it happen.”
The truth about sex
Sex is the most amazing experience anyone would love to be a partaker of. It brings joy, fulfillment, and beauty only those involved can tell. It was ordained by God in the garden of Eden. The Bible states it clear that the two of them (Adam and Eve) were naked, and that they felt no shame. “Both the man and his wife were naked yet felt no shame.”
Vision in a relationship | Marriage goals
Like in any other institution, vision is the motivating and key factor in any relationship. It is well known that “where there is no vision the people perish.” (Proverbs 29:18, NIV). The same concept is very critical for any meaningful relationship to work. If it lacks vision, it lacks control and the parties involved end up casting off restraint. You can guess what will happen.
Your worth as a woman of God
Understanding your worth as a woman is key in personal development. It has become a trending story, people committing suicide because someone said it’s over and “broke their heart”, and others being imprisoned because of assault cases. What is really happening, where have we gone wrong as a society?
Life lessons about the grace of god since 2011
The grace of God and our Lord Jesus Christ is the unmerited favor that can not be obtained through good works. The lifestyle we used to embrace before we came to the “knowledge of the truth,” was futile and unpleasing before God’s sight, but He stilled loved us despite us being wicked and stiff-necked and this indeed is grace.
The misconception of love in our society
The secular world has created a picture in our minds that has corrupted our view and definition of love. The world views love on the basis of emotions, they fail to understand that a good relationship is not propelled by emotions that are short-lived, but rather true love. True love should not be about how we feel, but something better and deeper that one can trust and hold onto.