Sexual dreams are common and often reflect our subconscious desires. However, some people may wonder if there is a deeper, spiritual meaning behind these dreams, especially from a biblical perspective. What does the Bible say about having sex in a dream? How should Christians interpret and respond to such dreams?
In this article, I will explore the biblical implications of sexual dreams, drawing from the inspired word of God. I will also discuss some practical tips on how to deal with sexual dreams. Sexual dreams are not necessarily sinful, but rather an opportunity to examine one’s heart.
Sex is more spiritual than it is physical. Having sex in a dream doesn’t imply a literal involvement, rather it indicates spiritual defiled. God may reveal sexual dreams to show us the state of our hearts.
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” (Hebrews 13:4).
What is The Biblical Symbolism of Having Sex in a Dream?
A Symbol of Hidden Desires and Temptations
Erotic dreams can serve as a mirror, reflecting your hidden desires. According to biblical interpretations, these dreams could be a reminder of the ongoing struggle between your fleshly desires and your commitment to lead a virtuous life.
Such dreams act as an alarm bell, urging us to conquer any sinful tendencies by seeking the power of God to resist them.
James 4:7-8 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double-minded.
Related: A step-by-step guide on dream interpretation.
A Symbolic Representation of Covenants
From a biblical perspective, sexual dreams can also represent the idea of covenant and unity. Just as sexual intimacy within marriage symbolizes the holy union between spouses, a sexual dream might indicate a longing for emotional, spiritual, and physical oneness with someone else.
It embodies the yearning for a committed relationship, mirroring the biblical notion of a covenant.
A Caution Against Immorality
While dreams can carry deep spiritual significance, it is crucial to interpret sexual dreams with wisdom. The Bible cautions against immorality in thought and deed.
Sexual dreams that incite lustful thoughts or endorse immoral conduct should be opposed. Instead, individuals are urged to concentrate on fostering purity and a lifestyle centered around Christ.
2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
Related: What are The Causes of Sex Dreams?
Common Situation in Which You Dream of Having Sex in a Dream
Biblical meaning of having sex with your Ex in a dream
In the context of biblical interpretation, dreaming about having sexual relations with your ex often symbolizes a longing for certain elements of that past relationship that are absent in your present one.
To illustrate, I used to dream about being intimate with my ex, even though we never had any physical contact in reality. It was the most chaste relationship I have ever had, with strict adherence to sexual boundaries.
In my waking life, I was involved in another relationship. However, the dynamics had changed as we had crossed some sexual boundaries, even though we had not engaged in sexual intercourse. I found myself yearning for the purity that characterized my previous relationship with my ex, a stark contrast to the struggles I was facing in my current relationship. This was the message my dream was conveying.
Dreaming about having sex with your ex could also be a reflection of your ex’s efforts to rekindle the relationship, or it could be indicative of the state of your heart, as you might be missing your ex. It’s possible that you haven’t fully resolved your issues with him/her.
Biblical Meaning of Dreaming of Having Sex with a Stranger (“Spiritual Spouses”)
To begin with, there is nothing like a spiritual husband or spiritual wife. What you see in your dreams are simply demonic entities that forcefully play the role of a spouse. I remember God opening my spiritual eyes, and I saw the actual appearance of these spirits.
The key thing to consider is how the symbolism is used in such a context. If the stranger is forcing you into the act, then you have to pay close attention to this dream. It might symbolize a demonic entity that is trying to take advantage of you.
They achieve this by paralyzing you, rendering you defenseless. The male sex demon is called an incubus while the female sex demon is called a succubus.
Most often you wake up very wet and assume it was just a wet dream. However, the truth is that you were making love to demonic entities. I don’t believe in wet dreams; it is just a lie they taught you in schools. We have all heard of spiritual husbands and spiritual wives.
These are the same entities that present themselves in our dreams. What we call spiritual spouses are simply demonic spirits, who play the role of a spouse in your dream.
They can put on a false identity of someone familiar to you, probably your boyfriend or girlfriend.
If you have been having such dreams you should pray against them and plead the blood of Jesus Christ upon your life. Do the same every time you go to bed.
When I was a porn addict, I used to experience such evil dreams. However, when God delivered me, the whole thing stopped. We should all know that the act of sex is more spiritual than it is physical. Some of you have sired children with demons without your knowledge.
That is why you are having many relationship issues as these demonic entities claim you as their spouse and are very jealous and can not allow you to move with anyone.
Related: How to be delivered from sex addiction
Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend
In interpreting this dream you have to take into consideration the context of such a dream and the state of your mind by the time you were about to sleep.
If you have been thinking about him or her, then it is possible to fantasize about the two of you making love. The dream is a consequence of your thought.
But if you have never thought of each other sexually or in that manner, then the symbolism might mean something different. We all know that the Bible does not approve of fornication.
This dream may be warning you to be watchful as the enemy seeks to tempt you to fornicate. It may also mean you should be more watchful of your thoughts and how you are relating in your relationship.
It may also symbolize a demonic entity in the shadows of your lover. That is, the entity takes their appearance to easily seduce you to make love with him in the dream.
Dreaming Of Having Sex with Your Father
The symbolism of a father always represents a spiritual authority over our life, as they are the head of the family. Therefore, we need to be very careful while interpreting such a dream based on its context.
1). If Your Father is Forcing You into The Sexual Act
This dream reflects a disturbing situation in your waking life. Your father may symbolize authority over you. This person is pushing you beyond limits and straining you to do something you hate such as forcing you to achieve his youth goals which he never managed to achieve.
This feels as if you are being taken advantage of, hence the symbolism of rape in your dream.
The dream can be evil especially if you are living in sin. The Bible condemns the sexual union between a father and a daughter. (Leviticus 18:10, 18:15).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter, for their nakedness is your nakedness.” (Leviticus 18:10, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your daughter-in-law; she is your son's wife; you shall not uncover her nakedness.” (Leviticus 18:15, ESV).
The sex dream may indicate there is a perversion in the family and you need to pray about it. If your father is not born again, then you should pray for him as he might be perverted.
2). Your Father Breaking Your Virginity
Your virginity is reserved for no one else but your future husband and he alone. The symbolism indicates great marital difficulties as you have made a covenant with your father through the shedding of blood, which has the power to bind you together as one. Sex is used to consummate a marriage, cleaving the two to become one flesh.
This is the reason why most ladies are still in their father’s house and have never found a life partner, and if they do the marriage doesn’t last, they always end up divorced and back to their father’s house, it is a cycle.
The covenant they made with their father sexually and unaware opposes those unions. If your father practices witchcraft, then he might have done so to put you under his authority and to gain more power.
God may be revealing to you what conspired, and the reason why you have been having marital difficulties, to pray about it to be delivered in Jesus’ name.
3). Having an Intimate Sexual Act with Your Father
In this case, you consent to the act. Some people may claim that “this dream means you are going to have a renewed relationship with him, probably if you had previous differences, as God has called us to the ministry of reconciliation (II Corinthians 5:18-19).”
This is not true, as there isn’t any biblical principle that supports this ideology. Why would you, in any case, desire to sleep with your parent? It is unnatural and contrary to God’s design of sexual relations.
Reject this dream, as it is a lie from the pits of hell. Consecrate your mind through the word of God (John 17:17, Romans 12:1-2).
If you are a carnal Christian, then sexual dreams might be your mind’s way of processing intimacy in relationships. Even with that said, this concept, to a greater extent, is flawed and does not pass the ‘litmus test’ of biblical teachings.
Your spirit is not awakened to the reality of the word of God and its implications. That is to say, you are still a babe operating under the inclinations of your flesh. (1 Corinthians 2:14, Romans 8:5-7)
Dreaming of Having sex with your mother in a dream
A mother represents a caring character in your life as she carried you in her womb for nine months and she has nurtured you this far.
1). Your Mother Forcing You to Have Sex
The dream implies she is forcing you to take up character traits you are not comfortable with or in other words, she has become too involved in your affairs until she feels she has control over everything you do. This act is greatly condemned in the scriptures.
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father, which is the nakedness of your mother; she is your mother, you shall not uncover her nakedness. You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife; it is your father's nakedness.” Leviticus 18:7-8, ESV
This is an evil dream and you should pray to cancel it.
2). Having Very Intimate Sex with Your Mother
As we have seen earlier, intimacy with your parent in a dream is unnatural, and the concept does not align with any biblical principles. This dream is a scheme from the enemy to lure you into sinful thoughts, therefore, reject it in the name of Jesus.
Biblical Significance of Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Sibling
Your brother or sister is the closest person you have in your life. The person you have spent your childhood together. Consider the context from which the dream is drawn.
1). Raping Your Sister or Tricking Her to Have Sex with You
It may mean there is a perverted spirit operating in your heart and you need to pray about it and repent to be cleansed by the blood of Jesus.
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your sister, your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether brought up in the family or another home.” (Leviticus 18:9, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, brought up in your father's family since she is your sister.” (Leviticus 18:11).
If you have been entertaining such thoughts or probably you have not been relating with your sister properly, then the dream is a warning for you to seek to have a renewed mind and start relating with her in purity.
It is only a perverse man who can lay with his sister and defile her in that manner, hence dishonoring himself.
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your sister, your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether brought up in the family or another home.” (Leviticus 18:9, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, brought up in your father's family since she is your sister.” (Leviticus 18:11).
From a psychological perspective, having an intimate sexual dream with your sibling indicates a sense of a renewed relationship between you. Sex in this dream represents intimacy and renewed very healthy bonding. However, there is no biblical principle to support this argument.
Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Cousin or Other Family Members
Considering the context, the dream might be evil or have a significant meaning based on the following scriptures.
“None of you shall approach any one of his close relatives to uncover nakedness. I am the Lord.” (Leviticus 18:6).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, and you shall not take her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter to uncover her nakedness; they are relatives; it is depravity.” (Leviticus 18:17).
The dream may also indicate renewed family unions. However, you need to pray against such dreams as they are most often evil.
Related: Does God warn you not to marry someone in a dream?
Spiritual meaning of Meaning of Having Sex with an Angel in a Dream
Angels are appointed as ministering spirits to those who are of the seed of Abraham by faith and not flesh (Hebrews 1:14). They can take the form of humans. In the Bible, we see the sons of God who defiled themselves with the daughters of men.
“The sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose.” Genesis 6:2
From this, we know that angels can be tempted and they also have desires. This is true as they lusted after the mortal women.
Making love with an angel symbolizes the highest form of perversion that has ever existed since the beginning of time. It is a forbidden sexual relationship.
Probably you are being seduced into having fellowship with the devil for he turns himself into an angel of light. You are also being initiated into cultism and demonic worship or even witchcraft.
Related: Dreaming of angels.
Dreaming of Lesbianism and Homosexuality
This dream has two distinct meanings based on its context. One, the sex dream represents a facet of your personality.
In reality, the dream is about you, because you are more willing to give in to your carnal urges.
The person you are having sex with is yourself, and you are more concerned with satisfying yourself at the expense of building your inner person.
Secondly, The Lord detests such acts as they are perverse. God created sex to be a special gift of marriage between a man and a woman, and not a man and another man or a woman and another woman.
“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.” Leviticus 18:22
The symbolism in this dream may indicate that you are being initiated into witchcraft as this is what they do in their cultic rituals.
You need to pray against such dreams and ask God to deliver you from every satanic yoke.
Having sex With an Animal in a Dream
The Bible condemns bestiality as it is a perverted and unnatural union. The beast can not consent to the act; hence it is violated.
“And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is a perversion.” Leviticus 18:23
This dream symbolizes initiation into witchcraft and Satanism. It can also mean you are very perverted and you need to recheck your thoughts.
It might also symbolize sin in your life that is detestable as the act of bestiality. Pray and repent of your sins to receive redemption for your soul.
Dreaming of a Dog Licking Your Private Parts
When you see a dog chasing you in a dream, and in the next scene it licks your private parts, then you need to be very prayerful because you are being defiled.
The dog is symbolic as it represents the lustful men who have been chasing after your body to fornicate with you. Drawing the symbolism from the mating behavior of dogs, we know that a female dog may be mated by over twenty dogs in a day.
The men you are fornicating with are symbolized as “dogs”. This dream may be reflecting your true self especially if you have been living a life of fornication.
“Outside are the dogs and sorcerers and the sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.” Revelation 22:15
Just as the act of dogs licking your private parts is disgusting for you to even think of, so is your lifestyle of fornication detestable before God. God is calling you to repentance.
You need to stop fornicating and seek to be freed through the blood of Jesus Christ. God can deliver you if only you let Him.
Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Spouse: Biblical Meaning
It is wise to interpret this dream based on your feelings about the dream and its context. The dream may indicate your desire to be with your partner especially if they have recently traveled or are living in a distant city.
It may also indicate your desire for more sex if you are not satisfied sexually with your partner. In this case, you should talk to your spouse about it and your deep sexual desires.
Related: Should a man lust after his wife?
“Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” I Corinthians 7:5
It may symbolize your appreciation of the intimate sexual relationship you are having with your spouse. Since in the physical, you greatly enjoy the sex, your mind may end up bringing it up in your dreams as sweet memories. Such dreams should not be ignored.
Sleeping With an Old Woman in a Dream
Dreaming of having sex with an old woman is another sign of bondage to a spiritual spouse. After this dream, you begin having uncontrolled lust for old women, which eventually causes you to neglect your wife.
This inclination to have sex with old women is unnatural. It causes you to flirt around with old married and single women. The dream kills your natural desire towards your wife or women of your age; hence it is demonic.
Related: Dedication of Dreams.
Having Sex with a Woman with Male Organs
The dream reflects a picture of someone faking their identity or character. Probably, you trust a friend who made you believe they were someone they are not. This is why you see the changing identity.
Just the same way someone will pretend to be a man while in the actual sense, she is a female. The dream reflects on the subject of betrayal, as you trusted the wrong person.
Having Oral Sex in a Dream
Oral sex in a dream reflects something that relates to your mouth. It may have to do with your habits, such as criticism, gossiping, or talking negatively about yourself.
Since oral sex is done by the use of your mouth, it is a clear indication that in your waking life, you are sinning with your mouth. Be careful with what you say about yourself or others.
Biblical Meaning of Dreaming About Having Sex with a Celebrity
Dreaming of having sex with a celebrity reflects your obsession and desire towards that person. You may be attracted to them due to a specific aspect of their personality that your spouse lacks.
Perhaps, the male celebrity is more handsome and masculine than your husband. Or probably, the female celebrity is fairer and more independent than your wife. Whatever attracts you to that celebrity may differ from person to person.
This has the effect of drawing your heart and affection away from your spouse. You become attached to fantasy, that’s why it manifests in your dreams. This act is sinful, as you are lusting after a stranger. Be realistic and learn to be contented with what you have, because it is the best.
Dreaming of Your High School Friends Having Sex
This dream indicates that you are currently feeling so out of place as though you have been left out. Others seem to be enjoying life just as one would enjoy the act of intimacy. Try your best to examine your current situation and how it relates to this dream.
Perhaps you feel you are stranded as everyone you know including your classmates have made it in life or are way far ahead of you in life.
Sleeping with a familiar person
Most often when you dream of having sex in a dream with someone you know, it reflects your desire for a certain aspect of their personality traits that you lack, or feel insufficient in.
For example, I used to dream of having very intimate and intense sex with my university lecturer, yet in waking life, we had never related in any way. She used to be very eloquent, bold, and smart. These were the traits I needed as I was finding it a challenge to make YouTube videos as I was not as eloquent as I desired.
Related: Dreaming of a snake attacking you
However, if you have feelings for this person, then the dream is drawn from your fantasies about them. This happens a lot especially when you have a hard crush on your boss, colleagues, friends, coach, etc. Therefore, work on your mind and heart.
What Happens When You Have Sex in a Dream?
- Spiritual spouses, which are simply marine spirits cause stagnation in your life.
- If you were to attend a job interview but end up dreaming of having sex, then you will be disqualified from the position you are applying for.
- When you have sex in your dreams before exams, then you are doomed to fail.
- Dreaming of having sex with strangers while in a relationship leads to all kinds of struggles in that relationship.
- Having sex in your dreams while married leads to infidelity and eventually divorce. They are responsible for most marital failures.
- The sexual activity in your dreams brings you rejection.
- This also causes business failure and bankruptcy.
- These dreams bring diseases, such as erectile dysfunction and other health issues.
- They can lead to miscarriages.
A Prayer Against Sexual Encounters in Dreams
- Heavenly Father,
- I come before You in prayer, acknowledging Your sovereignty and grace. You are the author of holiness, and I seek Your presence in this moment. I lift my concerns about the dreams I have been experiencing, particularly those involving sexual encounters.
- Lord, I recognize that these dreams conflict with Your design for purity and righteousness. Your Word teaches us to guard our hearts and minds, to flee from temptation, and to honor the sanctity of sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage.
- I repent for any thoughts, actions, or influences that might have led to these unsettling dreams.
- I pray for Your divine protection over my mind as I sleep. I ask for Your strength to resist any impure temptations that might infiltrate my subconscious. Please fortify my spirit against the schemes of the enemy, who seeks to disrupt my peace and compromise my faith.
- Help me, Lord, to discern the messages within my dreams. Grant me wisdom to understand their significance, and guide me in responding with faith, prayer, and obedience to Your will.
- May Your Spirit provide me with understanding, separating Your truth from any deceptive influences.
- Father, I surrender these dreams into Your hands. I pray for Your healing in my mind and spirit. Purify my thoughts and cleanse my heart, renewing me according to Your Word. Strengthen me to walk in righteousness, resisting all forms of immorality or impurity.
- I place my trust in You, knowing that You are faithful and compassionate. Grant me peace as I rest, knowing that You are my protector and refuge. Thank You for Your unconditional love and grace.
- In Jesus’ name, I pray,
- Amen.
good day sir, i am struggling to interpret this dreams. i recently dreamt of a fire on a braai stand but the was nothing on it and then the smoke from the fire came straight to in my nose and i woke up,
and again today i dreamed that i was left with two babies at home but they both started acting evil and one literally forcefully had sex with me, i prayed over it but i still want to know what it means…
thank you in advance
Hi Linda. Can you please fill the contact form on the contact page to provide more details about your dream. Thank you
Hi sir ,I’m having dreams of having sex in the dream with unkown humans ,and I do find my self attending the secondary school I graduated from ,pls help interpret
Komon, can you fill in the dream interpretation form on the contact page to provide more details. Thank you.
Hello, please I need your help.
I’ve been having sexual affairs unintentionally in my Dreams and upon waking up – I always felt depressed and allergic to what I have done.
The one that happened to me earlier was when I had a contract with someone, then this spiritual forces emerges to destroy the work. For some days now, the client involved haven’t respond, and this is the 1st contract I’ve gotten since I started my blogging business.
Additionally, I was delivered few days ago from spiritual bondage as I was having strange illness which begin after I was beheaded in the dream.
I also got the same dream today — spiritual forces led me into a sexual act, then I saw myself killed in the dream.
Please this is critical.
What can I do to liberate myself from this spiritual onslaught?
Daniel, It seems there is a marine spirit that has been assigned to destroy the works of your hands and kill you. Therefore, you need to pray again the spirit of death and dedicate to destroy it on the altar of the living God. Raise a sacrifice again the demonic attacks.
Also, dedicate your business to God for protection and establishment. God is faithful keep on trusting in Him and calling on him. You can find information about dedication on the blog, home, and donation page.
I will stand with you in prayers. May God give you the desires of your heart.
Hello,
Wondering if you can help interpret. Here is some context….
I called out of work today…just because. I work for a union and I have sick days I can use to cover me. I convinced my husband to let me enjoy the day off. My husband and I were intimate last night…I didn’t fully orgasm thru sex …I had a little left so i took care of it myself quickly. Idk of that is even Considered masturbation considering the context was us being intimate. Anyway, this morning I had a dream I was at work…cats were drawn to me. 4 of them came up to me and sat on my work cart and slept. (I do like cats) In the dream my boss tells me to stop what I’m doing and go clean up a mess. So, I went upstairs to this room and when I got there 2 guys that I knew from highschool were sleeping there. 1 of them I had a sexual relationship with, and the other wanted an intimate relationship with me back then but it never happened, I had no attraction to him. I wasn’t saved in highschool. I said my hellos and how are you…the one I slept with in past commented on my nice body shape….but nothing sexual happened with them in the dream. Im walking away and my boss finds me …they were getting upset thay I’m taking to long with the task.. I ignore her.. Next scene I’m with my husband. Were driving and I tell him that I seen those 2 guys and that we were cordial but nothing happened. He believed me(he is an awesome man very loyal and trusting)and only said yeah I remeber u telling me of him and he hinted I need to be careful. Next scene in the dream I’m in bed with my spouse. We tried to be intimate but something distracted us….then next scene I’m being attacked by a spirit. I’m thinking my husband is on top of me but when I open my eyes I see a blond hair woman woth short hair. I’m like your not my husband, get off of me”..she is trying to put male genitals in me(she had not entered me yet) and as I’m fighting this thing I’m calling on Jesus for help cuz I know it’s an attack…finally I grab the genitals and with my pointer finger I use all my strength and rip the genitals into 2 pieces. Then all of a sudden I’m outside of this same building and I see a woman who is the mother of an ex whom I had 4 kids with, she used to practice Spanish witchcraft often, but she was murdered 10 years ago after we broke up. In the dream I was surprised she was alive. She was going to see her grandkids in a daycare….I thought to myself I wonder if she trying to see my 4 boy’s as well…it concerned me. I said hello to her ..she came over to me…I told her I thought she was dead…she said she was sick but is getting better. I apologized to her for any bad behavior I showed with her in the past when I was with her son as a young teenage girl. She HATED ME so much when I was with her son. She didn’t like that I was white but not at all in general either. It was alot of hurt and drama then I experienced. So idk why I apologized to her in the dream because when I got saved I prayed for her soul often knowing her hatred and witchcraft she did. Well in the dream my husband is with us the whole time Im speaking to her….for some reason I don’t introduce him to her. I hugged her…apologized got into a van with my husband, and as were driving I apologize to him for not introducing her. He understood why it may not have crossed my mind. As were driving I ask him if he seen the dream I did…and it turns out in this dream a couple of the scenes were dreams in a dream…in the dream my husband seen my dreams in his sleep as well. We shared the same demonic attack dreams.
It was very strange, but I woke up and felt led to rebuke jezebel specifically. Cuz it was a woman trying to Penetrait me. Do you have any interpretaion of all this? I’m trying to blend it all together for a meaning of what God’s trying to show me. He often speaks to me in dream prophetically in regards to present or future matters.
I know this was long, Thank you for taking the time to read this and give me your thoughts.
Hi Jen, thank you for reaching out for some help. The dream was triggered by your sexual desire. You should not have masturbated at all, as it opens a door for the enemy to accuse you before the throne of God, and for demonic activities as well. Instead, if you fail to attain orgasm ask your husband to help you out through oral sex (oral stimulation) to achieve orgasm and make you happy and satisfied.
Now concerning the dream. As I said, it was triggered by masturbation. And it’s a warning dream. As a result, you are welcoming a stranger into your marriage bed, specifically a marine spirit. ( Hebrews 13:4).
The cats drawn to you in the dream do not symbolize your likes anymore, but that your desires are drawing evil entities to you.
The woman you saw with male organs is a reflection of yourself, as you are not true to your faith, hence the reason for a shift of gender in the dream. The lady is a reflection of you satisfying yourself sexually rather than asking your husband to help you out.
Now concerning the different characters, you saw in your dream. Your ex’s mom is another reflection of yourself and what is currently happening in your waking life, as you are the one who is sick and home looking after your 4 kids. The presence of the other Ex’s tells you that you have unresolved past issues that you need to settle deep in your heart, and purity it.
I hope this helps, make sure to read the article on oral stimulation (oral sex), to help you avoid the same mistake. You should let your husband stimulate you (using his fingers, or kissing your nipples and genitalia to stimulate you) when you fail to reach orgasm through penetration.
Goodday just need your advice.What do you do when you a God fearing person and you are married to a person that don’t want to need your sexual needs and don’t meet your emotional needs.I was working at a car manufacturer for ten years.I was a slave to sin drugs ,alcohol sexual sin marijuana etc.I was in a relationship with the woman I’m married to now.One Sunday morning daylight under the influence of marijuana a Spirit entered my room and I was in the presence of something Holy and tears started to run out of my eyes.I cried the hole day that day until night time.The next day the Monday the same thing happened but long story short I went to my father and he let me to Christ and Immediately I could feel that how the addictions left my body after I received Christ.YEAR after that the spirit led me out of my job .In the same year I got married after I left my job.But before I got married I went back to her and told her if she don’t want to get married because I’m out of my job then i wil totally understand but stil she agreed to go forward with the marriage.Then we got married and it’s for 8 years now.That’s my background.Now I’m in this marriage where I’m being robbed of my sexual needs being fulfilled because I can’t contribute financially towards the house.She is the one working and I’m the one taking care of the children at home doing everything from doing the washing cleaning cooking etc .I had the privilege to see Jesus in my dreams .I had training where the Holy spirit trained me to stand against spiritual and to discern spiritual forces and am stil growing .Each time my when my wife argued that I must get a job then the same night I received a dream of where I see what curse is going to come upon me if I go back to take a secular job. I know I must fear God and put Him 1st but I wrestle with my sexual needs not being met.Lastnight I separated myself from our bed cause I feel like the more she is close to me the more I want my sexual and emotional needs met.I having these crazy sexual dreams that I know it’s not from God .Im having difficulty to focus on God’s word.And I feel like this sexual desires I’m having that is not met is open doors to demonic spirits in my spiritual life.How do I manage this stage of my life.How do I convince my wife to the things I’m standing for is from God. SHE arranged us to meet with a Spiritual councillor for Christ to somehow convince me that the things I’m standing for is not from God and to convince me to get a job.I must add also we are blessed we have everything and we never went to bed hungry we have everything.After the meeting with the councillor she was not happy with the outcome of this meeting.
It’s like she is stuck in this marriage where I was honest from the beginning and I’m being forced to turn my back the promises of God He made during the cause of time.Pray for us PLEASE
I must also add to what let me to this site.I got this dream where I see a very old lady I must say she is very old .But the thing that bothers me is that want to have sex with her. But as I’m on my way to her to have sex then I woke up.The second dream is about a father and a son .In real life a know then they have a great relationship.But in the dream they had an argument about something.Then in the dream the father acknowledges that the son is were wrong and were right in the argument then the father sticks outs his hand to reconcile the relationship between them.
That the son were wronged and were right in what (the son ) were saying
This dream reflects your own relationship with your father. The people you saw are symbolic. I don’t know what is currently happening between you and your father. However, it’s clear that whatever differences you have will be resolved soon.
The other dream is triggered by your current marriage situation. You must work on the marriage lest the enemy tempts you. However you will overcome, that’s why the sex never happened in the dream.
Thank you Marshall for reaching out for help. I am sorry for the sad experience. You made the right choice to follow Christ and I assure you that you will never regret it, for your reward is great in heaven. Everything happening now in your marriage is a way of the enemy to discourage you so that you may backslide and lose your reward in heaven, don’t give in to the temptation. Jude 24 declares, To him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy.
Secondly, you don’t have to compromise your belief in Christ to please anyone, however, it is important that you ask the Lord to help you find a job, that will enable you to sustain your family. Rember it’s the man’s duty to provide for his family and not the wife. (Please read 1 Timothy 5:8), this way you will command respect from your wife and children.
1 Timothy 5:8
Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
Working in a secular environment is not sin,(Unless there is something there that influences you to stumble) as long as what you do is honorable and brings God glory. Please find a good job to support your family, nothing will happen to you or your faith if you work for a company, I mean almost every job out there is secular, the only job that is not is church work, and perhaps you are not a pastor. I believe the reason why your wife behaves the way she does is because of the pressure of having to bear all the financial burden by herself, while in an actual sense who should be helping her with that.
Now concerning the conjugal rights. It is sinful for her to deny you your right in the marriage bed as her husband. However, you should realize there is so much going on in her mind which turns her off from your sexual advances. Nevertheless, this is still not enough reason for her to deny you. If you continue in this path, you are putting the relationship at stake and opening a door for the enemy to tempt both of you because of a lack of self-control. Look at what the Bible teaches concerning this matter:
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise, the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
As I have read your article and I’m looking at dates these attacks are commonly present. I recently dreamed my son which is 8 years old and myself was having sex they way my husband and I would. I’m the dream there was such a disgust for this vile act that there was no justification for it. Then the sheets were filled with blood after the act. Before I could tell my son that this was wrong I had awaken.
Honesty in my heart I believe my husband’s mother has sexually violated him in the spiritual realm because she acts as if he is her spouse instead of her son. He doesn’t see it but God have allowed me to see her wicked ways without a filter.
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