Sexual dreams are common and often reflect our subconscious desires. However, some people may wonder if there is a deeper, spiritual meaning behind these dreams, especially from a biblical perspective. What does the Bible say about having sex in a dream? How should Christians interpret and respond to such dreams?

biblical meaning of having sex in a dream
A woman having erotic dreams with a stranger.

In this article, I will explore the biblical implications of sexual dreams, drawing from the inspired word of God. I will also discuss some practical tips on how to deal with sexual dreams. Sexual dreams are not necessarily sinful, but rather an opportunity to examine one’s heart.

Sex is more spiritual than it is physical. Having sex in a dream doesn’t imply a literal involvement, rather it indicates spiritual defiled. God may reveal sexual dreams to show us the state of our hearts.

“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” (Hebrews 13:4).

What is The Biblical Symbolism of Having Sex in a Dream?

A Symbol of Hidden Desires and Temptations

Erotic dreams can serve as a mirror, reflecting your hidden desires. According to biblical interpretations, these dreams could be a reminder of the ongoing struggle between your fleshly desires and your commitment to lead a virtuous life.

Such dreams act as an alarm bell, urging us to conquer any sinful tendencies by seeking the power of God to resist them.

James 4:7-8 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double-minded.

Related: A step-by-step guide on dream interpretation.

A Symbolic Representation of Covenants

From a biblical perspective, sexual dreams can also represent the idea of covenant and unity. Just as sexual intimacy within marriage symbolizes the holy union between spouses, a sexual dream might indicate a longing for emotional, spiritual, and physical oneness with someone else.

It embodies the yearning for a committed relationship, mirroring the biblical notion of a covenant.

A Caution Against Immorality

While dreams can carry deep spiritual significance, it is crucial to interpret sexual dreams with wisdom. The Bible cautions against immorality in thought and deed.

Sexual dreams that incite lustful thoughts or endorse immoral conduct should be opposed. Instead, individuals are urged to concentrate on fostering purity and a lifestyle centered around Christ.

2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

Related: What are The Causes of Sex Dreams?

Common Situation in Which You Dream of Having Sex in a Dream

Biblical meaning of having sex with your Ex in a dream

In the context of biblical interpretation, dreaming about having sexual relations with your ex often symbolizes a longing for certain elements of that past relationship that are absent in your present one.

To illustrate, I used to dream about being intimate with my ex, even though we never had any physical contact in reality. It was the most chaste relationship I have ever had, with strict adherence to sexual boundaries.

In my waking life, I was involved in another relationship. However, the dynamics had changed as we had crossed some sexual boundaries, even though we had not engaged in sexual intercourse. I found myself yearning for the purity that characterized my previous relationship with my ex, a stark contrast to the struggles I was facing in my current relationship. This was the message my dream was conveying.

Dreaming about having sex with your ex could also be a reflection of your ex’s efforts to rekindle the relationship, or it could be indicative of the state of your heart, as you might be missing your ex. It’s possible that you haven’t fully resolved your issues with him/her.

Biblical Meaning of Dreaming of Having Sex with a Stranger (“Spiritual Spouses”)

To begin with, there is nothing like a spiritual husband or spiritual wife. What you see in your dreams are simply demonic entities that forcefully play the role of a spouse. I remember God opening my spiritual eyes, and I saw the actual appearance of these spirits.

The key thing to consider is how the symbolism is used in such a context. If the stranger is forcing you into the act, then you have to pay close attention to this dream. It might symbolize a demonic entity that is trying to take advantage of you.

They achieve this by paralyzing you, rendering you defenseless. The male sex demon is called an incubus while the female sex demon is called a succubus.

Most often you wake up very wet and assume it was just a wet dream. However, the truth is that you were making love to demonic entities. I don’t believe in wet dreams; it is just a lie they taught you in schools. We have all heard of spiritual husbands and spiritual wives.

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These are the same entities that present themselves in our dreams. What we call spiritual spouses are simply demonic spirits, who play the role of a spouse in your dream.

They can put on a false identity of someone familiar to you, probably your boyfriend or girlfriend.

If you have been having such dreams you should pray against them and plead the blood of Jesus Christ upon your life. Do the same every time you go to bed.

When I was a porn addict, I used to experience such evil dreams. However, when God delivered me, the whole thing stopped. We should all know that the act of sex is more spiritual than it is physical. Some of you have sired children with demons without your knowledge.

That is why you are having many relationship issues as these demonic entities claim you as their spouse and are very jealous and can not allow you to move with anyone.

Related: How to be delivered from sex addiction

Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend

In interpreting this dream you have to take into consideration the context of such a dream and the state of your mind by the time you were about to sleep.

If you have been thinking about him or her, then it is possible to fantasize about the two of you making love. The dream is a consequence of your thought.

biblical meaning of sex in a dream
A man dreaming of having sex with his ex-girlfriend.

But if you have never thought of each other sexually or in that manner, then the symbolism might mean something different. We all know that the Bible does not approve of fornication.

This dream may be warning you to be watchful as the enemy seeks to tempt you to fornicate. It may also mean you should be more watchful of your thoughts and how you are relating in your relationship.

It may also symbolize a demonic entity in the shadows of your lover. That is, the entity takes their appearance to easily seduce you to make love with him in the dream.

Dreaming Of Having Sex with Your Father

The symbolism of a father always represents a spiritual authority over our life, as they are the head of the family. Therefore, we need to be very careful while interpreting such a dream based on its context.

1). If Your Father is Forcing You into The Sexual Act

This dream reflects a disturbing situation in your waking life. Your father may symbolize authority over you. This person is pushing you beyond limits and straining you to do something you hate such as forcing you to achieve his youth goals which he never managed to achieve.

This feels as if you are being taken advantage of, hence the symbolism of rape in your dream.

The dream can be evil especially if you are living in sin. The Bible condemns the sexual union between a father and a daughter. (Leviticus 18:10, 18:15).

“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter, for their nakedness is your nakedness.” (Leviticus 18:10, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your daughter-in-law; she is your son's wife; you shall not uncover her nakedness.” (Leviticus 18:15, ESV).

The sex dream may indicate there is a perversion in the family and you need to pray about it. If your father is not born again, then you should pray for him as he might be perverted.

2). Your Father Breaking Your Virginity

Your virginity is reserved for no one else but your future husband and he alone. The symbolism indicates great marital difficulties as you have made a covenant with your father through the shedding of blood, which has the power to bind you together as one. Sex is used to consummate a marriage, cleaving the two to become one flesh.

This is the reason why most ladies are still in their father’s house and have never found a life partner, and if they do the marriage doesn’t last, they always end up divorced and back to their father’s house, it is a cycle.

The covenant they made with their father sexually and unaware opposes those unions. If your father practices witchcraft, then he might have done so to put you under his authority and to gain more power.

God may be revealing to you what conspired, and the reason why you have been having marital difficulties, to pray about it to be delivered in Jesus’ name.

#21 Biblical Meaning of Having Sex in a Dream

3). Having an Intimate Sexual Act with Your Father

In this case, you consent to the act. Some people may claim that “this dream means you are going to have a renewed relationship with him, probably if you had previous differences, as God has called us to the ministry of reconciliation (II Corinthians 5:18-19).”

This is not true, as there isn’t any biblical principle that supports this ideology. Why would you, in any case, desire to sleep with your parent? It is unnatural and contrary to God’s design of sexual relations.

Reject this dream, as it is a lie from the pits of hell. Consecrate your mind through the word of God (John 17:17, Romans 12:1-2).

If you are a carnal Christian, then sexual dreams might be your mind’s way of processing intimacy in relationships. Even with that said, this concept, to a greater extent, is flawed and does not pass the ‘litmus test’ of biblical teachings.

Your spirit is not awakened to the reality of the word of God and its implications. That is to say, you are still a babe operating under the inclinations of your flesh. (1 Corinthians 2:14, Romans 8:5-7)

Dreaming of Having sex with your mother in a dream

A mother represents a caring character in your life as she carried you in her womb for nine months and she has nurtured you this far.

1). Your Mother Forcing You to Have Sex

The dream implies she is forcing you to take up character traits you are not comfortable with or in other words, she has become too involved in your affairs until she feels she has control over everything you do. This act is greatly condemned in the scriptures.

“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father, which is the nakedness of your mother; she is your mother, you shall not uncover her nakedness. You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife; it is your father's nakedness.”  
Leviticus 18:7-8, ESV

This is an evil dream and you should pray to cancel it.

2). Having Very Intimate Sex with Your Mother

As we have seen earlier, intimacy with your parent in a dream is unnatural, and the concept does not align with any biblical principles. This dream is a scheme from the enemy to lure you into sinful thoughts, therefore, reject it in the name of Jesus.

Biblical Significance of Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Sibling

Your brother or sister is the closest person you have in your life. The person you have spent your childhood together. Consider the context from which the dream is drawn.

1). Raping Your Sister or Tricking Her to Have Sex with You

It may mean there is a perverted spirit operating in your heart and you need to pray about it and repent to be cleansed by the blood of Jesus.

“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your sister, your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether brought up in the family or another home.” (Leviticus 18:9, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, brought up in your father's family since she is your sister.” (Leviticus 18:11).

If you have been entertaining such thoughts or probably you have not been relating with your sister properly, then the dream is a warning for you to seek to have a renewed mind and start relating with her in purity.

It is only a perverse man who can lay with his sister and defile her in that manner, hence dishonoring himself.

“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your sister, your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether brought up in the family or another home.” (Leviticus 18:9, ESV).
“You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, brought up in your father's family since she is your sister.” (Leviticus 18:11).

From a psychological perspective, having an intimate sexual dream with your sibling indicates a sense of a renewed relationship between you. Sex in this dream represents intimacy and renewed very healthy bonding. However, there is no biblical principle to support this argument.

Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Cousin or Other Family Members

Considering the context, the dream might be evil or have a significant meaning based on the following scriptures.

“None of you shall approach any one of his close relatives to uncover nakedness. I am the Lord.” (Leviticus 18:6).

“You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, and you shall not take her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter to uncover her nakedness; they are relatives; it is depravity.” (Leviticus 18:17).

The dream may also indicate renewed family unions. However, you need to pray against such dreams as they are most often evil.

RelatedDoes God warn you not to marry someone in a dream?

Spiritual meaning of Meaning of Having Sex with an Angel in a Dream

Angels are appointed as ministering spirits to those who are of the seed of Abraham by faith and not flesh (Hebrews 1:14). They can take the form of humans. In the Bible, we see the sons of God who defiled themselves with the daughters of men.

“The sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose.”  
Genesis 6:2

From this, we know that angels can be tempted and they also have desires. This is true as they lusted after the mortal women.

Making love with an angel symbolizes the highest form of perversion that has ever existed since the beginning of time. It is a forbidden sexual relationship.

Probably you are being seduced into having fellowship with the devil for he turns himself into an angel of light. You are also being initiated into cultism and demonic worship or even witchcraft.

Related: Dreaming of angels.

Dreaming of Lesbianism and Homosexuality

This dream has two distinct meanings based on its context. One, the sex dream represents a facet of your personality.

In reality, the dream is about you, because you are more willing to give in to your carnal urges.

The person you are having sex with is yourself, and you are more concerned with satisfying yourself at the expense of building your inner person.

Secondly, The Lord detests such acts as they are perverse. God created sex to be a special gift of marriage between a man and a woman, and not a man and another man or a woman and another woman.

“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.”  
Leviticus 18:22

The symbolism in this dream may indicate that you are being initiated into witchcraft as this is what they do in their cultic rituals. 

You need to pray against such dreams and ask God to deliver you from every satanic yoke.

Having sex With an Animal in a Dream

The Bible condemns bestiality as it is a perverted and unnatural union. The beast can not consent to the act; hence it is violated.

“And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is a perversion.”  
Leviticus 18:23

This dream symbolizes initiation into witchcraft and Satanism. It can also mean you are very perverted and you need to recheck your thoughts.

It might also symbolize sin in your life that is detestable as the act of bestiality. Pray and repent of your sins to receive redemption for your soul.

Dreaming of a Dog Licking Your Private Parts

When you see a dog chasing you in a dream, and in the next scene it licks your private parts, then you need to be very prayerful because you are being defiled.

The dog is symbolic as it represents the lustful men who have been chasing after your body to fornicate with you. Drawing the symbolism from the mating behavior of dogs, we know that a female dog may be mated by over twenty dogs in a day.

The men you are fornicating with are symbolized as “dogs”. This dream may be reflecting your true self especially if you have been living a life of fornication.

“Outside are the dogs and sorcerers and the sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.” 
Revelation 22:15

Just as the act of dogs licking your private parts is disgusting for you to even think of, so is your lifestyle of fornication detestable before God. God is calling you to repentance.

You need to stop fornicating and seek to be freed through the blood of Jesus Christ. God can deliver you if only you let Him.

Dreaming of Having Sex with Your Spouse: Biblical Meaning

It is wise to interpret this dream based on your feelings about the dream and its context. The dream may indicate your desire to be with your partner especially if they have recently traveled or are living in a distant city.

It may also indicate your desire for more sex if you are not satisfied sexually with your partner. In this case, you should talk to your spouse about it and your deep sexual desires.

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“Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”  
I Corinthians 7:5

It may symbolize your appreciation of the intimate sexual relationship you are having with your spouse. Since in the physical, you greatly enjoy the sex, your mind may end up bringing it up in your dreams as sweet memories. Such dreams should not be ignored.

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A man dreaming of caressing his wife in a dream.

Sleeping With an Old Woman in a Dream

Dreaming of having sex with an old woman is another sign of bondage to a spiritual spouse. After this dream, you begin having uncontrolled lust for old women, which eventually causes you to neglect your wife.

This inclination to have sex with old women is unnatural. It causes you to flirt around with old married and single women. The dream kills your natural desire towards your wife or women of your age; hence it is demonic.

Related: Dedication of Dreams.

Having Sex with a Woman with Male Organs

The dream reflects a picture of someone faking their identity or character. Probably, you trust a friend who made you believe they were someone they are not. This is why you see the changing identity.

Just the same way someone will pretend to be a man while in the actual sense, she is a female. The dream reflects on the subject of betrayal, as you trusted the wrong person.

Having Oral Sex in a Dream

Oral sex in a dream reflects something that relates to your mouth. It may have to do with your habits, such as criticism, gossiping, or talking negatively about yourself.

Since oral sex is done by the use of your mouth, it is a clear indication that in your waking life, you are sinning with your mouth. Be careful with what you say about yourself or others.

Biblical Meaning of Dreaming About Having Sex with a Celebrity

Dreaming of having sex with a celebrity reflects your obsession and desire towards that person. You may be attracted to them due to a specific aspect of their personality that your spouse lacks.

Perhaps, the male celebrity is more handsome and masculine than your husband. Or probably, the female celebrity is fairer and more independent than your wife. Whatever attracts you to that celebrity may differ from person to person.

This has the effect of drawing your heart and affection away from your spouse. You become attached to fantasy, that’s why it manifests in your dreams. This act is sinful, as you are lusting after a stranger. Be realistic and learn to be contented with what you have, because it is the best.

Dreaming of Your High School Friends Having Sex

This dream indicates that you are currently feeling so out of place as though you have been left out. Others seem to be enjoying life just as one would enjoy the act of intimacy. Try your best to examine your current situation and how it relates to this dream.

Perhaps you feel you are stranded as everyone you know including your classmates have made it in life or are way far ahead of you in life.

Sleeping with a familiar person

Most often when you dream of having sex in a dream with someone you know, it reflects your desire for a certain aspect of their personality traits that you lack, or feel insufficient in.

For example, I used to dream of having very intimate and intense sex with my university lecturer, yet in waking life, we had never related in any way. She used to be very eloquent, bold, and smart. These were the traits I needed as I was finding it a challenge to make YouTube videos as I was not as eloquent as I desired.

Related: Dreaming of a snake attacking you

However, if you have feelings for this person, then the dream is drawn from your fantasies about them. This happens a lot especially when you have a hard crush on your boss, colleagues, friends, coach, etc. Therefore, work on your mind and heart.

What Happens When You Have Sex in a Dream?

  1. Spiritual spouses, which are simply marine spirits cause stagnation in your life.
  2. If you were to attend a job interview but end up dreaming of having sex, then you will be disqualified from the position you are applying for.
  3. When you have sex in your dreams before exams, then you are doomed to fail.
  4. Dreaming of having sex with strangers while in a relationship leads to all kinds of struggles in that relationship.
  5. Having sex in your dreams while married leads to infidelity and eventually divorce. They are responsible for most marital failures.
  6. The sexual activity in your dreams brings you rejection.
  7. This also causes business failure and bankruptcy.
  8. These dreams bring diseases, such as erectile dysfunction and other health issues.
  9. They can lead to miscarriages.

A Prayer Against Sexual Encounters in Dreams

  • Heavenly Father,
  • I come before You in prayer, acknowledging Your sovereignty and grace. You are the author of holiness, and I seek Your presence in this moment. I lift my concerns about the dreams I have been experiencing, particularly those involving sexual encounters.
  • Lord, I recognize that these dreams conflict with Your design for purity and righteousness. Your Word teaches us to guard our hearts and minds, to flee from temptation, and to honor the sanctity of sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage.
  • I repent for any thoughts, actions, or influences that might have led to these unsettling dreams.
  • I pray for Your divine protection over my mind as I sleep. I ask for Your strength to resist any impure temptations that might infiltrate my subconscious. Please fortify my spirit against the schemes of the enemy, who seeks to disrupt my peace and compromise my faith.
  • Help me, Lord, to discern the messages within my dreams. Grant me wisdom to understand their significance, and guide me in responding with faith, prayer, and obedience to Your will.
  • May Your Spirit provide me with understanding, separating Your truth from any deceptive influences.
  • Father, I surrender these dreams into Your hands. I pray for Your healing in my mind and spirit. Purify my thoughts and cleanse my heart, renewing me according to Your Word. Strengthen me to walk in righteousness, resisting all forms of immorality or impurity.
  • I place my trust in You, knowing that You are faithful and compassionate. Grant me peace as I rest, knowing that You are my protector and refuge. Thank You for Your unconditional love and grace.
  • In Jesus’ name, I pray,
  • Amen.

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  1. Lizbeth Zak says:

    Hello Pastor.
    I had a dream last week about coming on top of my 6yr old son and having an orgasm. when I woke up that morning I was bleeding. am still bleeding up to now, and it’s not my normal periods. Kindly what could be the interpretation of my dream?

    1. I went through the dream over and over, and I came up with this interpretation. Based on your feeling and the setting of the dream, it reflects an unusual thing happening in your life. Everything in the dream is symbolic, including your son. Just as having sex with your son is an unusual thing to ever happen, the same applys to the abnormal menstrual period, which was symbolized by an organism in the dream.

      Also, you might be having high sexual desires, as you get close to your menstrual period. Your hormone levels fluctuate during menstrual cycles, hence, women are likely to feel their sex drive be at its highest during menstruation/ ovulation. This sexual desire starts around 14 days before and 7 days after menstruation. Your body is preparing for fertilization, causing a spike in sexual arousal. This might be the cause of your dream, however, because of the kid involved in the dream, I choose to dismiss this fact.

      What you saw or felt like an orgasm, was a flow of blood. That is why you walked up bleeding.

      Secondly, it is an attack from a marine spirit that takes the form of your kid to manipulate you sexually, hence resulting in your current condition. This is evident by the continual flow of blood that you said was unusual. Please, pray and dedicate to destroy that evil dream.

      * Please try to relate with what is happening in your life to know which of the interpretation is best suited for your case.

      I hope you are satisfied with the answer, if not please write to me here https://christiandreammeaning.com/contact/
      For more information. Thank you.

  2. Chichi Okoye says:

    I had a dream that I saw some long moving things like snake, not exactly snakes but I found a way to cage them into a bag and left.
    I left the place, went to meet my husband cause according to the dream, we were away from each other for long.
    So when I meet with him, he seemed very happy, not at seeing me but I noticed a lady (a prostitute according to the dream) around made him happy.
    I asked if he had anything with her, initially he said, just a friendly relationship, when I asked further, he said they had sex just once and I was disappointed. Disappointed because we tell ourselves everything.

    Immediately, the lady came around and my husband’s countenance changed into a happy look.
    I took him along with me, telling him that I needed to show him some snake-like things I caught and caged.
    We went to the place where I saw those snake-like thing, I carried up the bag and realized that those snake-like things had r rotted and decayed. Then I woke up.

    We are believers and my husband isn’t someone who will sleep with anybody not to talk of a prostitute and still be excited before me at her sight.

    Sometime In December 2021, I had a dream that I had sex with my brother and later in another dream I had sex again with someone I don’t know.

    My worry is that while I have these sex, I enjoy it like I have never had sex before.

    Please Sir, what does these mean?
    Thank you for your anticipated response.

    1. It seems what you saw as a prostitute besides your husband is a strong man (a spiritual spouse), which is usually a marine spirit. I believe these are the same spirits manifesting in your dreams to have sex with you.

      This dream has two parts or phases, one is an attack on your marriage through your husband, and secondly, a victory over the same.

      Just pray for your husband and marriage as well, so that when temptations come, you may overcome them.

      You will be victorious as a couple, and this was evident when you trapped the snakes and later on they rot and decayed. Meaning whatever authority that will try to raise against your marriage will eventually be defeated and will rise up no more.

      Consider dedicating your marriage to God for protection. God is faithful to keep your marriage from falling. Jude 24

      And lastly, continue investigating in your marriage interms of your emotions, affection and intimacy generally. Every time you are having intercourse with your husband, try you best to concentrate on that moment and your husband’s sexual desires, and your will end up enjoying it more than you did in those dreams. Trust me on this. Also, try to talk with your husband about your sexual need and desires. This will make the marriage more fulfilling.

  3. Good afternoon Pastor,
    Please I had a dream and there’s this fair looking young Lady who was trying to seduce everyone in a room but we all resisted and she said that she want to have sex with us but she’ll start with me, I resisted and later she kissed me forcing to put her hand into my pants where my buttocks is located and I set myself free from her and I started coughing out phlegms. I woke up with salivers on my cheeks

    1. Bobby, you just saw your victory over seducing spirits. The fact that you resisted her persuasion is a clear sign you won the war against your flesh.

      The book of proverbs talks about a adulterous woman who seeks to destroy the destinies of young men. This is actually a spirit.

      Pro 2:16 It will (wisdom) save you also from the adulteress, from the wayward wife with her seductive words…

      Keep on praying and being faithful to God, and you will resist this marine spirit.

      The saliva on your cheeks is a sign that there was a physical manifestation of an actual demon in your dream. Therefore, dedicate yourself for sanctification and protection.

      2 Timothy 2:22 Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

      Congratulations Bobby, you resist temptation.

  4. Anonymous says:

    Hi pastor,
    Thank you! I just found you!
    In late Dec 2020 my husband had a dream where he saw a woman put a ring on his finger. He also saw a flash photo of a naked male. Ever since that dream his life hasn’t been the same. He constantly has thoughts of just unbelievable homosexual images that comes to his mind daily and has caused him so much anxiety and depression. He can’t even be around males without feeling anxious or the thoughts keep coming in. We are married for 6 years and are both born again. He is very active in ministry and we have prayed, fasted and have had a few man of God pray for him but we feel like his deliverance is just not coming. My husband has been honest with me and explaining that he used to live a sinful life while in church by mastubating. He has repented. He also told me that when he was 14 years old he woke up and found an older family friend with his hand in his pants. He wasn’t sexually abused just touched I guess. As his wife I feel so defeated and can’t help him. I even suggested to see a physiologist for some medication to help control the thoughts but then he reassured me that deliverance is what he needs. I am very sad because we are 30 years old and never imagined my life this way.

    1. I am really sorry for that. This demonic entity has been in him or around him for a long time, and what your are seeing is its manifestation. It is responsible for causing your husband to masturbate and live in sin.

      The dream was used as an entry for demonic activities in his life. The ring is a sign of a legal claim by a demonic entity. The demon thinks that your husband is his possession, just as a wife would claim her husband because of the covenant of marriage.

      The Bible declares that they overcame evil through the blood of Jesus and the word of their testimony (Revelation 12:11). And where the spirit of God is, there is freedom. (2 Corinthians 3:17)

      The only way out is to resist this demonic desire. For if you resist Satan, he will flee from you. Personal, a few years ago, I was in an almost similar situation. It just happened one day as I was living with a friend of mine that I started developing unusual feeling towards him. I immediately knew something was not ok. The thoughts kept coming in for a whole week, but by the grace of God and through prayers I overcame. I resisted the thoughts until it had no effect or influence on me anymore and that is how I became victorious. The same is possible for your husband.

      We are living in evil days, where there are all forms of demonic powers that are at operation to cause the faithful to stumble. Society has permitted these very demons to operate by passing laws which are meant to destroy christian families. Laws such as same sex marriages.

      Jude 1:24 To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy–

      God is faithful to keep your husband and your family from falling, keep trusting in Him.

      Consider dedicating to destroy that dream, and dedicate your husband as well. Your can visit Jesus Teaching Ministries in Nairobi Kenya for free deliverance, by apostle Peter Manyuru.

      1. Sir .. nice reading your articles here and i believed that i will get the answer through by the help of holy spirit…
        Sir . consecutively…i dont use to remember my dreams..
        But suddenly…some days ago..i begin to see myself on wet boxers in the morning…i am 30yrs by God’s grace..am a hard working guy but no soulmate..i choose to settle down to avoid messing up in immoralities..am in long distance relationship not up to a month now … but through you messages i came to understand that am under attack of Marines power…but with Lord Jesus Christ…am free now..
        Its happening that am thinking of my girl so much… because she’s not giving me attention again…i dont know if the demon entity is fighting her not to love me..
        But this time i keep having sex in dream, and also getting wet too…some thing is wrong…my business is crying…am working hard but not seeing it as am working it…i dont know if its my always thought for my girl …or something else is taking over…. please direct me sir…

        1. Based on your age and the constant business failure, it is possible that you are under a marine attack. The spirit might be responsible for what has been happening in your life, therefore ask God to deliver you as you now know the root of your problems.

          Now concerning your affair. I recommend that you stop being obsessed with this lady, as that may end up manifesting in your dreams as sex dreams, and also affect your relationship with Christ. Remember, you should give God the first priority in your heart and not her because that is idol worship. If you find that you are the one pushing too hard for the relationship to work, then it is not worth it, the lady doesn’t like you.

          Don’t stress yourself for love, especially to a person you are not in a marriage covenant with. Just find a simple woman who treasures her faith in Jesus. I am not discouraging you, but if possible avoid long-distance relationships, they rarely work. I am saying this from experience in two different relationships.

          I recommend this article: https://joshuamwangangi.com/how-long-to-date-before-marriage/

  5. Hello, I dreamed about having sex with a familiar person I know. Someone that I know is lusting after me. He had on a condom but we didn’t finish. Currently I’m on a spiritual fast and I’m so disappointed tht I allowed the dream to go that far because in real life I wouldn’t give him the chance to sleep with me. What could that mean sir?

    1. The enemy has a way to discourage us when we have inclined our hearts to serve God. One of the ways he can achieve this is through guilt of sins we have not committed or even committed. Guilt and condemnation are the greatest weapons in his arsenal.

      To a great extent, this dream is meant to distract you from praying. If for sure you have sanctified Christ in your heart, and you don’t have any lustful thoughts concerning this person, then you have nothing to worry. Just pray to destroy the authority of this evil dream and dedicate yourself to God.

      What you saw might also be a reflection of that person’s thoughts towards you. They only view you as a sex object, hence the reason for their lust. The dream warns you to stay away from that individual, as they have evil motives towards you.

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